I'm a Mbuna girl myself, but she chose some nice fish. Christmas is coming soon... If you want to get her into African's, maybe a new tank with some Mbuna juveniles might do the trick. The reasons I like them: personality! They color up early. They become very interactive after they relate people to food. And getting to raise them up is fun. (I tend to like the less aggressive ones.) Not sure this will work but it might be worth a try. Sorry to post on something that has been posted this long.